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Lily and Dunkin

Lily and Dunkin

Book - 2016
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"Lily Jo McGrother, born Timothy McGrother, is a girl. But being a girl is not so easy when you look like a boy. Especially when you're in the eighth-grade. Norbert Dorfman, nicknamed Dunkin Dorfman, is bipolar and has just moved from the New Jersey town he's called home for the past thirteen years. This would be hard enough, but the fact that he is also hiding from a painful secret makes it even worse. One summer morning, Lily Jo McGrother meets Dunkin Dorfman, and their lives forever change"--
Publisher: New York : Delacorte Press, [2016]
Edition: First edition
ISBN: 9780553536744
Branch Call Number: J GEPHART
Characteristics: 340 pages ; 22 cm


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Sep 23, 2018

The book was wonderful and good to bring awareness to the younger category. Some parts were slow, but none the less a book that brought many emotions and had many relatable, good parts. An easy, quick read too! Would totally recommend to someone that is interested in learning more about these types of things.

Sep 21, 2017

A 2018-2019 Missouri Truman Readers Award preliminary nominee (grades 6-8).

Tim and Dunkin first meet in the summer before 8th grade and they seem to hit it off but then school starts and popularity gets in the way. And they both have pretty big secrets. Tim was born with male anatomy but knows that she is meant to be a girl named Lily. Dunkin has bipolar disorder and doesn't always take his medicine. Can they find a way to be friends?

This is a sweet but sad book. Either character's story would have been enough for a novel on its own. Pairing them was an interesting choice. I'm not sure how successful it was. Great message about being true to your self.

Jul 12, 2017

This book is great, I liked it because it told the story from both Lily and Dunkin's perspectives. There were some parts that were slow, and that I found boring, but you'll like it if you like books that have humor, but also have parts that are emotional.

Jun 06, 2017

I loved the book cuz i was sad, funny and great i stayed up all night till 12;00 to read it i red it twice

JCLCourtneyS Jan 30, 2017

You will like this book if you like getting to know great characters, or if you like relating to the lives of the characters in stories. You may like it less if, like me, you really enjoy a satisfying plot resolution. I felt like this one ended far too soon, but I enjoyed my short time with Lily and Dunkin nonetheless.

Dec 04, 2016

I love that this book exists. Though I am thrilled there are more and more books being published for teens and early learners about transgender youth, this topic is scarcely found for middle grades, and this is the core audience that needs these supportive, educational novels. The same can also be said about books focusing on mental illness. Teens have a plethora of these, but children and tweens really don't, especially about bipolar disorder. But there is more to why I love that this book exists. Our main characters will make you think and feel deeper: Lily, who only her closest friends know is transgender, and Dunkin, who only his family knows he has bipolar disorder. The plot will make you cry at least a couple of times. This book will encourage you to question why society stigmatizes people for simply being born differently and to see everyone for who they feel they truly are.

katbee Nov 12, 2016

This book is amazing, I stayed up too late reading it. The author does a great job of getting in the minds of these characters and you just want to know what they are thinking. The way she tackles serious issues is very well written. I recommend it to everyone as a challenge to learn more about transgender and bipolar disorder.

Sep 27, 2016

Lily and Dunkin gave powerful insight into two topics that rarely get discussed in Young Adult Literature. Bipolar disorder and transgender are not two topics you would expect to see in one book. However, Donna Gephart did a great job tying them together in two lovable characters. Lily was identified male at birth, given the name Timothy. She struggles with how to navigate 8th grade in the wrong body. Dunkin, given the name Norbert at birth, struggles with bipolar disorder and how to make friends at his new school. I thoroughly enjoyed reading this book as it keeps the reader captivated throughout. I would highly encourage others to pick it up.

Sep 27, 2016

What a wonderful story! Such delightful, honest, intriguing characters. Great for someone looking for a diverse read and to step into someone else's shoes for a while. And I love the friendship story presented here as well -- it's great to see such young kids care about each other.

ArapahoeCatherine Sep 06, 2016

I started this one somewhat reluctantly because realistic fiction is usually not my thing but discovered I loved it! This book is super important! It offers a somewhat rare look at the struggles of two middle school kids, Lily, a transgender teen, and Dunkin, struggling with bipolar disorder. I loved their sweet and incredibly real stories and appreciated the author's endnotes about her inspirations. A great choice for parents of middle school teens looking for books on these subjects! It also has a fantastic resource list at the end!

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